New Conflict Style Quiz /30 Answer the following questions to find out your Conflict Style NOTE: This tool is for your awareness and growth so answer as honestly as you can, thinking about how you really handle conflict most of the time, not how you think you should. You can't get this wrong. Your individual answers will never be shared. Please provide your name and email so we can send you your results. Your information will be kept 100% private. NameEmail 1 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario that you have been in and choose one of the two options given with that scenario in mind. You should choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. If neither of the statements matches what you would do, choose the option that most closely resembles how you would respond; there are no right or wrong answers. Sometimes I hold back and let others figure out how to resolve a conflict. I try to focus on similarities in views rather than differences. 2 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I prefer to resolve problems through negotiation. I try to make sure everyone’s concerns are heard. 3 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I typically know what I want and I go for it. In order to end a conflict, I sometimes aim to make the other person feel better. 4 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. If it will make the other person feel better, I’m sometimes willing to give up my own views. I prefer to resolve problems through negotiation. 5 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I always try to work with others to solve problems. I try to stay out of uncomfortable situations when I can. 6 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I do what I can to avoid tense situations. I try to convince others that I’m right. 7 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. Before approaching problems, I delay a bit so I can take some time to think about them. I am willing to compromise when others compromise as well. 8 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. When I know what I want, I go for it. I prefer to discuss problems honestly and openly so they can be worked out right away. 9 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. When something is wrong, I like to work with others so that we can make it right. I try not to upset others when dealing with conflicts. 10 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. Sometimes it’s best not to discuss conflicts. A good way to solve conflicts is to meet half way. 11 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I prefer to work with others to solve problems. When I know what I want, I go for it. 12 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. In order to avoid conflict, I sometimes don’t share my views. So that others feel better, I listen to their opinions without objecting. 13 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. When solving a conflict, I am concerned with making everyone happy. A good way to solve conflicts is to meet half way. 14 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I try to persuade others to agree with me. I listen carefully to the other person’s opinions when we are solving a problem. 15 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I think bargaining is a good way to settle our differences. I try to please others when doing so seems important to them. 16 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I prefer to hold back and let others figure out how to resolve conflicts. I tend to be concerned with making everyone happy. 17 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I feel comfortable telling others what I want. I approach problem-solving with the hope that all sides can figure out what we agree on and what we are willing to give up. 18 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I tend to listen to the other person’s opinions when we are solving a problem. I prefer to talk about problems openly and honestly. 19 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I try to work out problems with others right away. I think it’s best to figure out what the fairest outcome would be from everyone’s perspective. 20 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I wait a bit before approaching problems so I can take some time to think about them first. I try to work out problems with others as soon as they arise. 21 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. So that others feel better, I listen to their opinions without objecting. I prefer a ‘give and take’ resolution to problems, in which both sides make some concessions. 22 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I prefer to stay out of uncomfortable situations when I can. When I know what I want, I go for it. 23 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I prefer to make sure others understand my reasoning and why my view is right. I try to make sure other people don’t get upset. 24 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I prefer to stay out of uncomfortable situations when possible. Sometimes I try to make the other person feel better in order to end a conflict. 25 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I try to convince others that I’m right. I like it when everyone shares their thoughts. 26 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I’m fine with agreeing to disagree. I make sure my views are known to others. 27 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. Often I keep my views to myself in order to avoid conflict. I prefer a ‘give and take’ resolution to problems, in which both sides make some adjustments. 28 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. In order to resolve a conflict, I sometimes try to make the other person feel better. I prefer to discuss problems honestly and openly so they can be worked out right away. 29 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. I like to resolve problems through negotiation. I know what I want and I go for it. 30 / 30 Imagine a conflict scenario and choose the statement that most accurately describes how you would respond or feel. Sometimes it’s better not to discuss conflicts. I often try to get what I want.
