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Self-based Conversation
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To get the most out of any relationship we have to start our sentences with “I” rather than “You” – when the conversation matters and there is a problem to define and solve, people get defensive immediately if you start a sentence with “You”.
Own your feelings about the situation by starting with “I feel” – you will be amazed at how open the other person can stay.